Not once people have approached me in certain situations and asked me: “How are you not excited/happy/how are you still surviving”. True, These are different poles, but their connection to indifference is exactly the same. Both come from the same mindset.

What I’m going to write is not going to fit everyone

Not everyone is going to connect to these things. By no means do I want to convey that this type of mindset is good or bad. It is what it is.

At the beginning, in the first steps, when trying something new everything is very exciting. Everything is very surprising. And failure is the worst and most difficult thing, but, and it’s a big but, it’s just the beginning. It applies to every area of ​​life. Whether it’s first love, whether it’s a new sport, and whether it’s a new business. Some people who read it now, probably read and identify with some of the things. And some people who read it have not yet experienced some of the things. But that’s how it usually works in the beginning.

Along the way, we get used to certain things. Expect certain things, and accept them and accept the rest of the things. For the purpose of the example, we will take a human relationship. The first time there is a certain uncertainty, when will the kiss be, will there be a kiss does the other party even want it? Later, in this relationship, there is some sort of anticipation for the kiss, and it is already less exciting, and then for the first time, we come across a case where the other party, does not want a kiss at all.

Then we might experience very negative emotions, and these feelings might pass, or not pass. If these feelings pass, the next time the same person does not want a kiss it will hurt less and with time it will hurt less and less.
When there is a certain acknowledgment that something is happening, we react less to it emotionally.

I adopted this approach

I realized that anything can always happen. if I invest time and give my all, I will not be so surprised if I succeed in achieving all kinds of achievements that should happen on the way to the great goal. A great example of this would be in “the last dance” series, where everyone thought Michael Jordan had no feelings and he only knows how to “trash talk” and he can only give one hundred percent from himself on and off the court. Everyone were surprised when they saw him crying with joy after winning the championship.

He was not interested in the mini-achievements (victories against other teams) because for him they were only part of the process that had to happen in order to reach the ultimate goal (winning the championship), and that is the way I see the things.

When you fail, it’s fine, life is a marathon and not a sprint, it’s just part of the process, it’s what was probably supposed to happen in order to make changes and learn to deal with things more. Therefore, not every failure should be taken too hard. Conclusions and come out strengthened!

So what do you think? Is indifference a way of life that you will try to adopt for yourself or indifference is not for you? Or do you believe that life is a marathon and not a sprint.

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